I can't stand him, and he's nothing but a constant reminder of all the mistakes I made and how low my self-esteem was at the time to have put up with him for so long." Six years after graduating high school, I had an affair with my former gym teacher.
In high school, all of the girls drooled over him; he was this tall, buff guy, with bright blue eyes and the ex-NFL look.
There was obviously chemistry, but I was a little uncomfortable at first about him being married, which continued into our relationship.
“The forbidden and the taboo is one of the biggest turn-ons for people.
I realized that his ego was bruised when I told him I didn't want to be with him, so he made up with me just to break up, so he could have the last word.
After we broke up, he tried to repair things with his wife, and that didn't work, and I think he realized very quickly that no sane woman would deal with his enormous ego for how little he gives in return.
His unavailability was a turn-on, the danger of it all.
But it was upsetting because we couldn't do normal couple things.
Situations are a lot more nuanced than they appear to be.