Being left hanging and not knowing what happened is one of the hardest parts of online dating.
It is my experience that most people would much prefer to get a polite, “Thanks for your interest but I don’t think we’re a good match.
We had no idea The Rules would become a bestseller…
We put two and two together, and wrote and wrote, and that’s how The Rules were born!
Like most women our age, we were career-minded with our own apartments, but we also wanted to get married.
So over fried tofu and mixed vegetables, we each brought our dating problems to the table.
You need to force yourself to refrain from saying anything too intense or negative that could scare a man away.
Unfortunately, no matter what your heart says, you must hold back a bit for your own good.
Unfortunately, I just didn’t think we clicked the way I’d want us to, but I think you’re really great and hope to run into you again soon.” In this case, not answering is no longer an option and, in my opinion, would be rude.