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That led us to talk about Joe Mc Donald, a prominent model who had died a few weeks before.

Patrick said that he was worried about a ménage à trois he and Rupert had had with someone who had dated Joe.

This was our first summer in New York after college.

We had gone to Coney Island on Memorial Day, and vowed to go to the next beach eastward every weekend that summer, hoping to make it to Montauk by Labor Day.

It was about as wide as the tip of a pencil eraser and about the same color.

I had seen guys on the street and at but all through high school I was in the closet.

In early 1981, one of our young trainers, very good-looking with a beautiful body, got sick and went back to Pennsylvania to his family.

Four months later, we got a call from his sister saying he was very sick and the doctors did not think he would last the week. I cannot tell you the horror I felt as I walked into his hospital room and saw this old man in bed with tubes in his arms and nose. To see this once-young, healthy boy deteriorate so fast was devastating.

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One gentleman, James Johnson, worked in the publicity department at Paramount Pictures and would invite me to movie screenings.

By the end of the summer, he and the other two black guys in the building were dead.

I was kid from Queens with a mullet, a dress shirt unbuttoned to my abs, and Jordache jeans. My blood was drawn by my physician, labeled in collection tubes, and placed in a brown paper bag.

At 18, after my first semester at Columbia, I ventured into my first gay bar — The Eagle. A week later I returned there with Levi’s and a tight white tee, a crew cut, and three days of razor stubble. It was then my responsibility to deliver the specimens to the Health Department lab on First Avenue.

I would run into each of them frequently enough, but I never saw any of them deteriorate. So fast that the landlord was having trouble turning over the rent-stabilized apartments, so I was able to secure one for another college buddy.

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