The other day I was at the local gym in the midst of one of my all too-infrequent workouts when I spied one of those A little foxes that make you forget how much weight you just dialed into the machine.
I reflected on how the gym represents a kind of "so-near-yet-so-far" deal when it comes to meeting women because while they may be right there prancing around covered in sexy sweat, the environment never really seems appropriate for meeting and flirting around as it does in a nightclub.
Ladies know precisely how to use eye contact to either chill-out or lure men towards them, so learn how to follow their signals.
While this laid-back sort of "ticking" action might be a little too flim-flam for some of the more impatient among you, if you're looking to protect your ego and operate "without embarrassment" as much as possible then watching for these subtle signals is the best way to improve your chances of not getting blown off in public.
Let's face it, gyms will probably never be the ideal environment for meeting women, but these simple ideas may give you a better chance to make a play within a poor situation now and then.
The way to view this entire deal is to welcome whatever opportunities you can stir up in the fitness center as an ADJUNCT to your some other social activities - not as your saving grace or the one place where you're exclusively hanging out to meet women.
But you may have an opportunity to talk with her during the warm-ups or cool down after the class ends. 4) It's going to take repeated tries to break through.
", but their annoyance at having to do so is apparent and this immediate negative posture is not easy to overcome.I-pods and portable radios are by far the biggest obstacle to socializing in the gym.How do you break through to these chicks who are encapsulated in their own little world of sound and obviously trying to lock the rest of us out?Again, I think patience is needed here because women seem easily put off by intrusions into their mental workout zone - so you have to sort of wear these barriers down first in order to set them up for a possible move later on.If you can pull a favorable eye contact reaction like this on future encounters, then a bit of stop-and-chat might be in order and will certainly appear less offensive since the girl's given you some cause to open a convo with her.It may take a few encounters to get her thinking about you in a romantic sense, if at all - and so you have to play it cool.